There are certain behaviors that people display in public, believing they are normal or harmless.
Many assume, “It’s not a big deal. It doesn’t concern anyone,” but in reality, these habits can be unpleasant, disrespectful, or even embarrassing.
I have personally addressed a few individuals about these habits, but I can’t speak to everyone in person. That’s why I am making this post to help shed light on these behaviors so we can all strive to be more refined and considerate in public.
Let me start with a personal experience.
I was at a formal dinner with six other people, and the table was beautifully set with drinks for a toast. A lady walked in, sat down, immediately grabbed the biggest drink on the table, opened it, and drank straight from the bottle without considering anyone else.
The level of secondhand embarrassment I felt was overwhelming. My friend and I exchanged glances, speechless. This was a public gathering, and such behavior showed a lack of etiquette and awareness.
This is just one example, but there are many public habits people engage in without realizing how inappropriate they are.
Let’s talk about them.
1. Opening a Drink Bottle with Your Teeth
If you still open drink bottles with your teeth, especially in public, you need to stop. Not only does it look unrefined, but it also damages your teeth. Whether you’re a man or a woman, it’s not a habit that speaks well of you.
Always ask for an opener, it’s there for a reason.
2. Shouting on the Phone in Public
When making or receiving a phone call in a public space, your voice should remain controlled. Shouting into your phone, especially in public transport, restaurants, or gatherings, is disruptive.
If you know you can’t regulate your voice or the conversation might be sensitive, excuse yourself and take the call in a private area.
3. Picking Your Nose in Public
This should go without saying, but unfortunately, it still happens. Picking your nose in public is unhygienic and unpleasant for those around you. Whatever you are removing from your nose is not something anyone else should have to witness.
If necessary, excuse yourself to a restroom or use a tissue discreetly.
4. Touching People Without Their Consent
Many people casually touch others while talking, laughing, or making a point. However, not everyone is comfortable with this. Some people have personal boundaries, and it’s disrespectful to invade their space.
Keep your hands to yourself unless given permission.
5. Laughing Excessively Loud in Public
Yes, laughter is good, but there is a difference between laughing and being a public disturbance. You can enjoy a joke without drawing unnecessary attention by being overly loud.
Maintain composure and be mindful of your surroundings.
6. Touching Items in Someone’s House Without Permission
When you visit someone’s home, their belongings are not yours to handle freely. Don’t go picking up photo frames, opening cabinets, or using their items without asking.
It’s basic respect.
7. Walking Into Someone’s Home With Shoes On (When It’s Not Allowed)
If you enter a home where the host has taken off their shoes at the door, common sense should tell you to do the same. Some cultures and families prefer a shoe-free home for hygiene reasons.
Pay attention to such cues instead of dragging dirt into their living space.
8. Interrupting Others When They Are Speaking
Cutting people off mid-conversation shows a lack of patience and respect. Allow others to express themselves fully before responding.
Good communication involves listening as much as speaking.
9. Eating With Your Mouth Open or Making Loud Chewing Noises
Nobody wants to hear the sound of your food being chewed. Proper table manners dictate that you chew with your mouth closed.
It’s a small effort that makes a big difference in social settings.
10. Playing Music or Videos Loudly in Public
This one annoys me the most.
If you’re in a bus, waiting area, or any shared space, it’s inconsiderate to play music, watch videos, or take voice notes on loudspeaker. Use your earpiece or reduce the volume so you don’t disturb others.
Which of them are you guilty of and which do you think you should stop immediately?
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